You and Your Roommate
Even if you've shared a room with a sibling, living with a roommate
is an exciting and unique experience. By following a few simple guidelines,
you can create a mutually beneficial environment and relationship.
Take Time
to Adjust
Give your roommate a chance. Don't rely on first impressions. Talk about
your hometowns, interests, families, and your impressions of Tulane and New
Orleans.
Lay Down the Ground Rules
Discuss how you will keep the room livable for both of you. Determine
which furnishings are to be shared and what is personal and off-limits
to your roommate. Always ask before borrowing anything.
Studying or Socializing?
The issue of whether your room is a study hall or a place to socialize can become a
major point of conflict. Most people like the room to be a balance of
the two.
Do you and your roommate have compatible study habits? Do you like studying alone
or with classmates?
Discuss this important topic early in your relationship, and remember,
studying should be the priority in most cases.
Talk it Over
When you and your roommate have a conflict, talk about it when it occurs.
If you have a complaint, tell your roommate; don't whine to your neighbors.
Your roommate may not know you are upset and is probably happy to compromise
if informed respectfully.