One of the most rewarding aspects of residence hall living is the opportunity
to establish close friendships with people from a variety of backgrounds.
Whether your roommate is a close friend from home or someone you are
meeting for the first time, your roommate relationship can work and
even be fun. Most people enjoy the company of others; and your roommate
can be someone with whom to share ideas, interests, and good times.
For many, sharing a room is a new experience and can sometimes result in a few misunderstandings. Getting to know and understand your roommate(s) early is very important! This first step will lead to better communication. Developing a good relationship early on may help you to approach your roommate(s) when you discover an issue on which you do not agree. Also, be aware that your roommate(s) may approach you for similar reasons. Avoiding problems does not work.
Roommates do not need to be best friends, but it helps if they are fair, honest, and considerate with one another. Every resident needs to take responsibility for his/her own behavior and to share responsibly for the roommate relationship. To have a good roommate, be a good roommate. Getting along usually requires work, but the benefit of establishing good relationships makes the work worthwhile. Even if a lifelong friendship is not established, learning to live with one another’s differences is a valuable part of your education.